Memories 12 09 2008

Out Of Date Calendar

My Father is a man of few words though when he does talk it speaks volumes.


I thought I would put into words what at times is difficult to express.


It has been hanging on the wall in my office for some time. Sitting at my desk, it is right behind me directly below on of my Escher prints. It does not have a frame as my other prints and if you did not scan the wall thoroughly you may not notice it. The "it" I am talking about is the picture calendar that I received for my birthday five years ago. The picture calendar is a compilation of events in my life that have occurred during the months of a particular year. No matter what time of the year I am always flipping the pages to the month of September. Above the calendar for September is a picture of my children, the first day back to school during their elementary education. The photo is taken in front of our house on Spring Road, each child standing on one of the the three porch steps, from top to bottom. The school uniforms are crisp and pressed with shoes shined and the laces tight. The hair is combed back or in a ponytail or pigtails. The school supplies are held tightly in each hand with schoolbags off to the side. All three children with bright smiles, nervous with anticipation of new teachers, class work and seeing old friends. I look at the September calendar every day as if it were a mirror. I don't see a reflection of myself, but what I see puts me at ease, brings to mind good times and gives me solace during the hectic events of each day which at times are relentless. I gaze at the photo and remember coming home from work being asked an unlimited number of questions, helping with homework, talking about the events of the day at the dinner table and reading a bedtime story. I was not aware then that those moments would mean a great deal to me as I grow older. I am extremely fortunate to have those memories. Time has moved on and the children are now adults with their own children. What was intended to last a year will continue to enjoy day after day. Just an out of date calendar on the wall, but it is timeless....Dad.

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